I would not have thought about this matter until this year when I reach the 20th year of my life, I have been asked by quite a few adults about having a boyfriend. I also saw my Mom sticking to that same question whenever she meets anyone who is around my age over Even if she would not oppose or say anything, high chance is that she would blame every single B I had and will have in college and all mistakes and failures just because I date. Growing up with traditional Asian family probably has haunted you on how strict your parents are. You probably have had enough of those lectures and heavy criticism on how to not date someone and your only job is to study.
What It's Like to Date with Strict Indian Parents
Philip Guo - Understanding and dealing with overbearing Asian parents
This article is for young kids and teenagers growing up in a household with overbearing Asian parents, the sort that I describe in my Attention: Overbearing Asian Parents article. In the three years since writing that article, I've received lots of email responses and discussion forum messages from the perspective of young adults who have been oppressed by their parents. This article attempts to explore the other perspective—the parents' motivations and feelings—to help kids better understand and deal with their own parents. Disclaimer : A reader has written the following blog post criticizing my articles, so in response, I've agreed put up the following disclaimer, directly quoted from one of our email exchanges:.
Why are Indian parents so strict?
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You've probably been annoyed at one point or another by your parents breathing down your neck about grades or SATs, or being totally unreasonable about something like curfew. But when you have a super strict parent, it's an everyday struggle. While it may seem like you're the only girl in the world whose parents are this strict, rest assured you are not alone in the parental oppression. Here are things only girls with super strict parents understand. Anytime you go shopping with your friends, you have to hide any new clothes your mom wouldn't approve of.