I met Daniel properly for the first time on the 4 th May He had read a lot of my blogs before we even started talking, so he knew all about my condition. He knew my younger brother, Joe, who had also mentioned a few things here and there, so I never had to break it to him that I live with this unpredictable condition of Epilepsy. Sometimes that can be one of the hardest parts in the beginning of a new relationship. My seizures used to be controlled somewhat when we first met. I remember the first time Daniel and I went to see a film at the cinema in town.
Dating with Epilepsy
Dating & Epilepsy | The Epilepsy Network (TEN)
Going on a first date can be nerve-wracking under the best of circumstances; epilepsy just adds another twist. One question people often worry about is how soon they should tell their date that they have epilepsy. Being able to ask questions and share feelings on any topic, including epilepsy, will only make a relationship stronger. Although it may seem tempting to tell the other person over the phone, in an email or by text, instead of in person, any serious conversation like this is probably best done face-to-face. The more comfortable you are with the other person, the better the conversation will go. Everyone worries about it to some degree.
13 Things You Should Know If You're Dating Someone Who Has Epilepsy
Here young people talk about their experiences of dating, relationships and sex, and how having epilepsy affected these areas of life. Dating Young people's experiences of dating and relationships were very positive on the whole. Most we spoke with said that having epilepsy hadn't had a negative impact on their experiences of dating or going out with people. Most of the girls I've been out with have been, they've okay with it.
Many people with epilepsy have fulfilling relationships with a partner. Seizures are a physical symptom, but having epilepsy can mean far more than the physical impact of seizures, for the person with epilepsy, and their partner. Many people manage seizures well, but seizures can be unpredictable, frightening or shocking, both for the person having seizures and for those who see them. It may be hard to deal with the memory of a seizure, what the person with epilepsy looked like, how you both felt, or with the fear that it might happen again.